Be the Sharon: A Tribute to the Kind of Lead Every Actor Should Aspire to Be

Over the past few weeks, I had the immense privilege of working on the second season of Ellis, and I can confidently say it’s been one of the most inspiring experiences of my career. Not just because of the brilliant writing, direction, or even the thrill of being on a set again, but because of one person: the lead actress, Sharon D. Clarke.

Sharon isn’t just a phenomenal actress — we all know her power on screen and stage — but what truly blew me away was her presence off camera. She reminded me of what it really means to own it as a performer, not just in the craft, but in character, compassion, and connection.

So today, this post is a tribute. A moment of appreciation. But also, a call to all actors:
Be a Sharon.

The True Role of a Lead

When you're number one on the call sheet, you're not just the star — you're the tone-setter. The heartbeat of the production. And Sharon wears that responsibility with grace, strength, and deep humanity.

From the very first day, Sharon made a point of learning everyone’s name. Not just the main cast, but every single crew member, day player, and assistant. She would pause for chats, even just a quick check-in, and offer a genuine hug that grounded you instantly.

For actors coming in for just one day, those with small parts, background roles, or their first-ever shoot, walking onto a big set can be nerve-wracking. But Sharon created a space that felt safe, warm, and deeply respectful. That kind of atmosphere isn’t an accident! It’s leadership.

Leading with Generosity

We talk a lot about “commanding the room” as actors. But Sharon taught me that real command doesn’t come from ego — it comes from generosity.

She lifts the room. She keeps morale high, checks in when people are tired, and shares her energy without losing her own center. You can tell the crew respects her not only for her talent, but because they know she sees everyone.

That kind of leadership is rare, and I truly believe it’s no coincidence that she was cast as the lead in Ellis. Producers don’t just look for acting chops. They look for leaders. For actors who elevate the work, on and off screen.

The Takeaway for All of Us

If you’re an actor dreaming of leading a major UK show — or any project — remember: it’s more than talent. Yes, do the work, train hard, nail the audition. But don’t forget the human part of the job.

  • Be kind.

  • Learn names.

  • Give people your time.

  • Make newcomers feel at home.

  • Protect the energy of the set.

  • Lead with love.

Sharon D. Clarke didn’t just show us how to act. She showed us how to lead. And I, for one, am taking that lesson with me into every project going forward.

To Sharon, thank you. It was a privilege to witness your artistry and your heart in action.

And to all the actors reading this:
When your time comes to lead, lead like Sharon.
Be the kind of actor people never forget, for all the right reasons.

Wrapping the Journey

As I wrap my adventure on Ellis season two and head home to London, my heart is full. Thank you, Belfast, for the lovely time — and thank you to the entire cast and crew of Ellis for the warmth, creativity, and incredible teamwork. Special shout-out to the amazing Andrew Gower for being such a fantastic scene partner.

I can’t wait for you all to see the show. I hope it resonates with you as much as the experience did with me.

Until the next one —
Own it. Always.

Sending you a big hug,

Natalia

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