Finding an Agent: It’s a Lot Like Dating
I get a lot of questions from actors asking: “How do I find an agent? How do I know which one to pick?” The truth is, beyond a few obvious red flags, you won’t really know if an agent is a good fit until you actually sign with them and let life happen.
Think of it like dating. You might have a great first impression, but until you go on that week-long holiday together—stuck in the same hotel room—you won’t truly know if this relationship will work. The acting world is no different. You need to take that leap of faith, go for your first audition, and see how things land.
Here’s what to watch for once you’re working with an agent:
How do they react if you decide not to audition for something?
Do they provide constructive feedback on your self-tapes, especially the ones you poured your heart into?
If you’re on set and something goes sideways, are they there to have your back?
These are the moments that reveal whether your agent is really in your corner. Sometimes, the only way to find out is to jump in and see how it goes.
But You Also Have a Role to Play
Your agent can only take you so far—they need the right tools to represent you effectively. Ask yourself:
Are your headshots current and truly representative of you?
Are your home self-tapes professional, polished, and a 10 out of 10?
Are you actively working on skills within your control—accent work, stunts, or updating your reel with strong scenes?
Is your Spotlight profile complete, accurate, and professional?
Your responsibility is to give your agent the best possible chance to advocate for you. A top-notch actor is not just talented—they’re prepared.
Agents Red Flags – What to Watch Out For
While most agents are professional and supportive, some are not. Here’s what to keep an eye on:
Upfront Fees: Legitimate agents earn a commission on work you book—they don’t ask for money upfront.
Paid Self-Taping Requirements: You should have the freedom to self-tape wherever and however you choose.
Mandatory Paid Classes: Be cautious if representation hinges on attending paid classes run by the agent.
Photographer Restrictions: You should have options for your headshots—don’t let an agent lock you into a specific (often expensive) photographer.
Delayed Payments: A good agent ensures you are paid promptly—within 10 days of the production receiving payment. If in doubt, you can contact the production company directly.
Lovebombing & Unrealistic Promises: Excessive praise or guarantees of bookings are warning signs. No one can promise results in this business.
Lack of Transparency: Check the agency’s background:
When was it established?
What experience does the agent have?
No bio or info on their website? That’s a red flag.
Trial Representation: Beware of agents who want to “test” you and only commit if you book a job. A reputable agent believes in your talent from day one.
Non-Responsiveness: If emails go unanswered for prolonged periods, consider that a warning sign.
Finding the right agent is a mix of intuition, preparation, and yes—taking a leap of faith. Come prepared, stay professional, and trust your instincts. The right agent isn’t just someone who can get you auditions—they’re someone who has your back and champions your career.
(Thank you, Alexa Morden, for highlighting some of those red flags on your 98% Podcast! Be sure to give her a follow on Instagram: @the98percentpod.)
Sending you all a big hug,
Natalia
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