I Forgot My Lines on Set… with an Oscar-Nominated Director

Yup, that was me.

Twenty years of acting under my belt, lead roles, countless pages of dialogue—and there I was, standing on set with an Oscar-nominated director… completely blanking on my lines. Not once, not twice, but for a good three or four takes.

And you know what? It happens.

The Setup

I’d been on set for five days, feeling confident, comfortable, and ready. The first scene where I actually had dialogue came up, and suddenly—poof!—my brain checked out.

Now, I could give you excuses. Oh, I’ve got plenty. My adorable toddler gifted me a weird flu bug the day before i left for the shoot, and to top it off, it was day one of my period. Great combo, right?

But here’s the truth: no one cares about excuses on set. Not the director, not the crew, not even your scene partner. And honestly, they shouldn’t. So don’t even bother telling anyone about them.

What I Did Next

So what did I do?

I looked at the sides. I took a deep breath. I reminded myself that this wasn’t the end of the world—and that I wasn’t about to let nerves take over.

After the first time I went blank, I could feel that familiar wave of anxiety creeping in. That inner voice whispered, “You’re going to mess up again.”

So I told it out loud, in my head—“FUCK OFF. No, I’m not.”

And you know what? I didn’t.

Reset and Recover

Between scenes, I ducked into the green room, grabbed my little “bag of tricks,” popped a painkiller, and waited for it to kick in. By the time they called me back, I was centred again.

We rolled on to the next scene, which had more dialogue, and this time I nailed it. Zero mistakes. We even got some laughs. The producer told me afterwards she loved the scene.

The Reality Check

The next day, another actor went blank several times. You know what happened? Absolutely nothing.

No drama. No whispers. No judgment. The director just said, “Let’s go again,” and everyone moved on. We wrapped on time, no stress, no tension.

The Takeaway

If this ever happens to you—and trust me, it will at some point—remember this:

  • Stay calm. Take a breath.

  • Silence the intrusive thoughts. They’re liars.

  • Move on. Everyone else already has.

We’re human. We forget lines. Even after 20 years. Even with an Oscar-nominated director watching.

What matters most is how you recover.

So own it, learn from it, and get back to doing what you love.

Because forgetting your lines? It’s not failure. It’s just part of the gig. 🎬

PS: Special thanks to the wonderful John Madden for being so sweet with all the actors!

Sending you a big hug,

Natalia

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