Why Every Class Matters (And What I Wish I’d Known in My 20s)

Recently, I had a conversation that hit me right in the gut — one of those unexpected reminders of why I do what I do, and why I have to show up 100% for every single class I teach.

Here’s the truth: as an acting coach, I never really know what someone’s story is when they walk into my class. For some, paying £30 for a drop-in might be no big deal — something they can do casually, when time allows. But for others, that same class might represent a major investment.

They might be working three soul-crushing jobs just to afford that one shot. They might have travelled hours to be there. They might be pinning their hope on that one session, praying it helps them move an inch closer to their dream.

That hit me hard. Because I was that person.

I didn’t grow up with money. I moved out at 18 and — apart from a few brief returns home — I’ve been standing on my own two feet ever since. My 20s were a whirlwind of auditions, part-time jobs, survival gigs, and endless hustle. I didn’t have savings. I didn’t have a safety net. What I did have was a drive and a love for acting that kept me going through all the chaos.

So when I see students walking into my studio now, I see versions of me. And I take that seriously. Because I know what it means to sacrifice just to be in the room.

What I’ve Learned — And What I Wish I’d Known Sooner

I want to share some lessons with you. Not because I have it all figured out, but because these are the things I wish someone had told me when I was younger. Especially around mental health, money, and building a career that doesn’t burn you out.

1. Your Day Job Matters — But So Do the People Around You

I worked too many jobs in my 20s that sucked the life out of me. If you can’t find a job you love, at least find one with decent people. The right coworkers can make even the worst shifts bearable. Don’t underestimate the power of a kind, supportive environment — it can protect your sanity while you chase your dreams.

2. Learn How to Save (Even a Little)

No one taught me about money. I didn’t know how to budget, save, or invest. But once I hit 30, I was tired of living month to month. I opened a Vanguard account, started saving, and made safe investments. Slowly, things changed. Every acting paycheck, I’d split between savings and what I call "investing back into the company" — meaning me.

That could be:

• New headshots

• Self-tape equipment

• Acting classes

• A better workspace

You are your business. It’s okay to sacrifice a few nights out or a holiday if it means getting closer to where you want to be.

3. Financial Freedom = Creative Freedom

As I booked more work, my savings grew. I wasn’t rich, but I was free. Free to say no to toxic jobs. Free to choose day jobs more intentionally. Free to breathe. That freedom matters more than flashy things — it gives you the space to create from a place of power, not panic.

4. This Career Is a Marathon

There is no deadline. You can pause and restart whenever you need. If taking a year to focus on saving money or resetting your life feels right, do it. This industry isn’t going anywhere. You’re not falling behind. You’re pacing yourself.

Final Thoughts

When you walk into a class — whether it’s mine or someone else’s — know that you matter. Your effort, your presence, your journey. I don’t take it lightly. That’s why I promise to bring my full self to each class, every time.

Because I remember what it feels like to give everything you have for a chance to grow. And if you’re brave enough to do that, I owe you nothing less than my best.

You’re not alone. Keep going.

Sending you a big hug,

Natalia

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